Saturday, December 20, 2014

Guide To Proper Meditation For Couples

By Stacey Burt


Many people have been suffering from various illnesses because of one factor that is not even caused any damage or change to the body systems. Stress has the capacity to make you feel things and even your health is affected. And sometimes, it can be too powerful that it can also meddle with your relationships. And if you are married, having fights frequently because of it is never a good sign.

In order for you to not experience the various negative effects of stress and so that your relationship would not suffer, there are various things that you can do. But probably the most efficient and most practical one would be meditation for couples. This is one way for you to both evaluate and fix all the problems that you are going through as a couple.

There are many people who have been able to experience the many health and emotional benefits that this activity can give. There are also others who seems to be enjoying a healthier mind because of it as well. When your brain and body are relaxed, you function better.

There are a lot of individuals who have practiced the activity and gained major benefits. Now it is also being used to heal broken relationships and to help couples reconcile and adjust to their difference. This is also the most effective way that you can strengthen your relationship without even saying a word. This is also a therapy that is recommended by most marriage counselors.

You have to remember that this is an activity which you both must participate on. If one is not really keen on doing it, you would just end up fighting again. And the therapy will have no effect in times like these. It is essential that both of you have the heart to do this.

One of the effects of the meditation process is that it can reduce the negative emotions that you are feeling. Another is that it gives you a clear head. So when you just went through a fight, meditating puts all things in perspective. And it also makes you think of a way to reach an agreement or reconcile.

Choosing the meditation area is very important because it contributes a lot. You need to find a place that is not noisy and where you can concentrate. If you choose to do it in your home it is fine as long as there are not disruptions. This means that whatever gadget that you both have must be off. This would include the phone and the computer.

There is no particular position that you need to do when you are doing it. But the most recommended one would be sitting crossed legged and back to back with each other. This way, you would be able to feel the presence of the other. By taking deep breaths, you can notice that the chaos in the mind starts to ebb away.

You will know that it is working when you start thinking about various things. But you should not force them out. You should just let it flow into and then you will notice that they will slowly fade away one by one.




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